(written: Dec 13, 2007)

How do you measure the sincerity of the heart, of the min, of friendships and other relationships? Is it through the words they speak or the gestures they show? Do we believe in what we see or do we look deep down in their souls? Is it good to trust someone you don’t really know or is it bad judgment to even give them a chance. Do we succumb to their need for company and desire to laugh or do we doubt that their need for company is greater than the need for friendship? Are we going to offer a shoulder they can cry on or are we just offering a heart they can stab whenever they don’t need you anymore?

It is hard to be in a relationship-friendship or something more than that because you’ll never know when it would end and your heart will never know when to start and end trusting.